As I type this, my youngest son is being pursued by his nephew (my grandson) in a game of “chase me”. We are up visiting my oldest son and his family to celebrate his graduation from Cornell and receiving his PhD in horticulture.
I’ve had a wonderful time watching my kids and their lives as adults. The memories flood my mind of time gone by and of time yet to come which helps me appreciate the beauty that time creates in life.
Christian Scripture speaks of this in Ecclesiastes, one of my favorite books of the Bible.
“He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.” Ecclesiastes 3:11 NIV
I created the name Infinity Lifestyle Design in part from this perception that eternity is a concept we apprehend but maybe don’t fully comprehend. Therefore, living in this finite time, we can focus on helping shape events to make time more beautiful.
Planning the Beautiful
The foundations of living are built years earlier in the routines, habits, and disciplines already shaping daily life. The way we manage time today quietly becomes the framework for how we will experience tomorrow.
I plan like crazy because it builds the structure I need, but I also understand too much planning might make me miss family moments like I described at the beginning.
From the data I have collected, the average person understands the value of time management but struggles with consistency, focus, and follow-through.
Planning often begins with enthusiasm but loses traction when distractions, competing priorities, and reactive living take over. Focus is consistently one of the weakest areas measured in the assessment. The beauty of time becomes unfocused.
What Do You Want Your Time to Serve?
Time becomes more meaningful when we understand what matters enough to receive it.
The Life Purpose Statement is a free guided exercise designed to help you reflect on your values, relationships, experiences, and contributions, then put into words what you want your time and energy to support.
Adapting the Beautiful
No plan is foolproof. I’ve learned this time and time again. I’ll develop a detailed business strategy and then find that, while I fulfilled or achieved the goal, a lot of alterations and reworking occurred along the way.
On the personal side, modifications continue as my children have grown and now have families of their own. Ironically, adaptation requires me to focus on it.
Distractions highlight how fragile focus has become in modern life. Smartphones, social media, interruptions, multitasking, anxiety, email, and noise routinely emerge as sources of distraction. The problem is not simply productivity loss. Constant distraction slowly fragments our experience of life itself.
Those who navigate career evolution, life milestones, retirement, and aging most effectively are not the people who avoid disruption. They are the people who learn how to adjust while continuing to preserve meaning, relationships, and purpose.
Control the distractions and the beauty of time flows through your changing life.
Returning to the Beautiful
I’ve experienced the highs and lows of life. Birth and death, gain and loss, acceptance and rejection. Yet, I find time does return to the beautiful, if you choose to be intentional about it. I am more in tune to this as I am in the retirement age range.
Retirement makes this especially visible. A career can provide years of structure, identity, relationships, and purpose. When that structure disappears, having more time does not automatically make the time more meaningful.
That creates tension. Retirement provides more freedom, but freedom without direction can become disorienting. The same can be true during other transitions throughout life’s journey.
The beauty of time is that memory allows us to revisit the past while shaping what comes next.
The Beauty of the Human Heart
My beliefs are framed around a Creator who framed time to make everything beautiful in its time. That means we need to spend time to reach that beauty.
My grandson and youngest son continue to play, switching roles and chasing each other to their delight. There is the beauty of real time that took planning for us to get here. The beauty of adaptive time as they adjust the game moment by moment. And for me, the beauty of knowing this memory will remain long after the game ends.
That is the beauty of the human heart and of God’s time.
David Buck is the author of the book The Time-Optimized Life, coauthor of The Retirement Collective, and owner of Kairos (Time) Management Solutions, LLC. Learn how to apply the concepts of proactively planning and using your time. Take the Time Management Analysis (TMA), the Retirement Time Analysis (RTA), or all the other free resources offered to help bring more quality time into your life.
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